Nice Or Not So Nice?

Outline By: Brian A. Yeager



I. Introduction:

A. Of course, we know we are to be kind people (Colossians 3:12).

1. This involves being considerate of others (I Corinthians 10:26-33).

2. This kindness is to be extended to even those who don’t deserve it (Luke 6:35).

B. Yet, the Scriptures also teach us to be sharp at times (Titus 1:10-14).

1. The balance includes rebuking and being longsuffering (II Timothy 4:2).

2. When you stand for the truth, even the gentlest person will offend someone at some point (Matthew 13:53-58).


II. Body: Knowing when to flip the switch (John 6:5-27).

A. Not so “nice” to the rebellious (Ezekiel 2:1-3:9, Luke 3:1-9, and Acts 7:51-53).

1.  Those who refuse to hear the word of God are rebellious (Deuteronomy 1:43).

2. Rebellious people are not innocent (Proverbs 17:11).

B. Not so nice when someone rejects the truth and will stand in the way of others (I Kings 18:17-40 and Acts 13:5-13).

1. We have to contend with such people that stand in the way of the salvation of others (Jude 3-4).

2. Action has to be taken when those who oppose the truth chance to harm others (Titus 3:9-11; cf. Galatians 5:12).

C. Understanding that rebuking someone is NOT unloving (Revelation 3:19).

1. It is better to rebuke a sinner than to be quiet (Proverbs 27:5-6).

2. Remembering the goal…  Saving a soul (James 5:19-20) and/or protecting others (Romans 16:17-18).

D. Longsuffering and merciful when a soul can be saved (Acts 18:24-28), within boundaries (Revelation 2:18-23).

1. Understanding learning stages (John 16:12 and Hebrews 5:11).

2. Understanding that not all people are capable of learning or that there may be longer stages of the learning process (Mark 4:33).


III. Conclusion: To be nice or not to be nice?  Answer: Be both (Romans 12:9-10).




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